self/care

elainehsiang:

to the side of me you were never supposed to see,

i am not okay. twelve months does a lot to you when it’s not about you. recently i’ve been talking a lot about the pain, but i think spark plugs and mini scalpels say it better. they’re flashy when strength isn’t. if i am a process, and it is summer again. is this the season for change? sometimes i forget i already have, sometimes i forget, i spend hours not being sorry for anything, not noticing i’ve started to fill silences with anger. i’ve brought out so many fistfuls of hate that my knuckles are cramping, but i am still weak, i am aching, i am sorry. i am so sorry.

i don’t want to be violent with my hands anymore, let alone my words.
so i’ll leave it here
i’ll leave it here so
this love can save me.

(Source: thegestianpoet, via staff)

whoneedsfeminism:

“I need feminism because I’m tired of people questioning me for idolizing a woman (Lil’ Kim) instead of a man.”

whoneedsfeminism:

“I need feminism because I’m tired of people questioning me for idolizing a woman (Lil’ Kim) instead of a man.”

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latenightjimmy:

shygirl364:

John Krasinski and Jimmy Fallon Lip Sync “I’ll Make Love To You” on Late Night With Jimmy Fallon - 5/7/13 - (x)

There’s a new bromance in town.

cetchup:

Since you brought me in this world, let me take you out
To a restaurant, upper echelon
Imma get you a jag, whatever else you want
Just tell me what kind of S-Type Donda West like?
Tell me the perfect color so I make it just right
It don’t gotta be Mother’s Day, or your birthday
For me to just call and say (Hey Mama)

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Tags: the best tears

coketalk:

Contact - Daft Punk feat. DJ Falcon

The voice at the beginning of this face melting Daft Punk track belongs to astronaut Eugene Cernan, the Commander of Apollo 17, and the last person to walk on the moon.

The rhythmically flashing object the astronauts witnessed from their command module was assumed to be the S-IVB stage of the Saturn V rocket, though it was never confirmed.

Xavier Dolan. Candy Magazine (2013)

(Source: its-blee, via alextraordinary)

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If you speak in an angry way about what has happened to our people and what is happening to our people, what does he call it? Emotionalism. Pick up on that. Here the man has got a rope around his neck and because he screams, you know, the cracker that’s putting the rope around his neck accuses him of being emotional. You’re supposed to have the rope around your neck and holler politely, you know. You’re supposed to watch your diction, not shout and wake other people up— this is how you’re supposed to holler. You’re supposed to be respectable and responsible when you holler against what they’re doing to you. And you’ve got a lot of Afro-Americans who fall for that. They say, “No, you can’t do it like that, you’ve got to be responsible, you’ve got to be respectable.” And you’ll always be a slave as long as you’re trying to be responsible and respectable in the eyesight of your master; you’ll remain a slave. When you’re in the eyesight of your master, you’ve got to let him know you’re irresponsible and you’ll blow his irresponsible head off.

And again you’ve got another trap that he maneuvers you into. If you begin to talk about what he did to you, he’ll say that’s hate, you’re teaching hate. Pick up on that. He won’t say he didn’t do it, because he can’t. But he’ll accuse you of teaching hate just because you begin to spell out what he did to you. Which is an intellectual trap—because he knows we don’t want to be accused of hate.

And the average Black American who has been real brain-washed, he never wants to be accused of being emotional. Watch them, watch the real bourgeois Black Americans. He never wants to show any sign of emotion. He won’t even tap his feet. You can have some of that real soul music, and he’ll sit there, you know, like it doesn’t move him.

And then you go a step farther, they get you again on this violence. They have another trap wherein they make it look criminal if any of us, who has a rope around his neck or one is being put around his neck—if you do anything to stop the man from putting that rope around your neck, that’s violence. And again this bourgeois Negro, who’s trying to be polite and respectable and all, he never wants to be identified with violence. So he lets them do anything to him, and he sits there submitting to it nonviolently, just so he can keep his image of responsibility. He dies with a responsible image, he dies with a polite image, but he dies. The man who is irresponsible and impolite, he keeps his life. That responsible Negro, he’ll die every day, but if the irresponsible one dies he takes some of those with him who were trying to make him die.

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Malcolm X

The traps of racism.

Source: http://www.historyisaweapon.com/defcon1/malconafamhist.html

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